Preparing for the Long War: Some Stark Truths & Harsh Realities
This post was triggered by a discussion on FTI (internal) forum in the context of preparing for a political career and the difficulties that lie along the way. Here are some of my thoughts on this matter…Pl note what I am sharing is my personal opinion – based on personal experience. It may or may not apply in all cases – and may not match your own personal experience(s). But I hope it does provoke you to think..
The “cause” that we are fighting for – a fundamental reform of the political system in India – is easily the most daunting thing that most of us will *ever* do in our lifetimes. It is easily the most difficult thing that I have attempted so far. The odds are heavily stacked against us..Circumstances do not favour what we are trying to do. The right environment to nurture what we are trying to do does not exist. There are large incumbents who will be determined to thwart any progress that we make – if we are seen to be making progress. For now, we are insignificant, completely under the radar and submerged in popular consciousness. There is every likelihood that we will not see the change we want in our lifetimes.
If you are still with me up to this point…and still determined to give this your best shot, come and join the club..We are the optimists and the believers..but there is a wide chasm between starry-eyed optimism and the cold, practical reality of what we face today.
For most (all?) of you who are reading this, politics is not a “profession”. There is no “payment” or salary or any kind of monetary compensation you can expect for your “political” work – whether it is writing a blog – or addressing meetings – or coordinating conference calls or chats on topical issues. Which may be fine as long as such activities are in your spare time…or outside of your work hours. Even then, such activities will very seriously intrude on your personal time and time with the family. You can pretty much forget about most of your hobbies. And unless your family is fully behind this – and supporting you as you spend endless hours in these apparently thankless tasks – you will not get very far – or may have a family breakdown. This is  stark truth #1 …and it is better to understand this now than realise it (painfully) later.
Support from the family becomes even more critical as you move on to step 2 – which is devoting significant time to political activism. My definition of significant is simple – anything more than 2 days a week. It is very likely that if you are doing this, you are making some serious compromises in terms of your finances – unless you are are very well off (financially retired). If you are thinking about this, you will almost certainly have to downsize and your family will have to support you in terms of adjusting to the new reality of reduced discretionary expenditure…and even less time to spend with them. Equally, if you do not move to Step 2 by the time you are 50, it may be too late. Not just in terms of your age (and energy needed for this activity) but also in terms of “adjusting” to the reality of down-sizing. It is not easy – take it from me. In my personal case, the ONLY reason I was able to do this – even though I still have very significant financial liabilities (a house which is still on mortgage and a daughter in education) is because I have the blessed fortune of having unwavering support from my wife ( and I daresay, my daughter). Without their backing and wholehearted commitment to our cause of reshaping the destiny of this great nation, I would have been in the same boat as most of you – busy with my day-job, occasionally trying to “do something”, possibly writing a blog, having a few meetings.. and that’s about it. Which brings me to stark truth #2: Unless you are prepared to radically downsize your lifestyle – and re-examine all your priorities, you cannot afford to be in politics – full-time or part-time. This holds true for most of us (I am guessing the vast majority of those reading this still have to work for a living and are unlikely to inherit sums of money that will enable them to stop working)..although there may be exceptions..(+ you can always win a lottery!)
Even this though will not be enough.
The next step – namely contesting elections (unless you are only thinking of a local election) will almost certainly demand your full-time involvement – although many of us would wish it was otherwise. The reality of politics in India means that the voter demands that (i) you be always “available” for his/her problems and (ii) you are able to do something to fix them.  This means any plan(s) you may have of combining politics with any kind of job/consulting will not work – particularly so if you get elected (the pressure on your time will go up almost by an order of magnitude). This means you *must* have access to a steady cash flow and income earned through transparent means to support yourself and your family through this phase. This is hard because this effectively bars all but the most successful (financially) from the game, unless you are willing to make “sacrifices” – which I personally do not recommend (knowing how hard it is).
This brings me to stark truth #3 which is: unless you happen to be born in a wealthy family, you will need to make sure that (a) you have worked hard (and long) and earned (and saved) enough to have a fairly large* corpus of funds which can provide you sustenance (b) that your immediate family is happy with you fore-going 10-15 years of gainful (and I daresay, highly remunerative) employment to support you in your “cause” and (c) that you and your family are prepared – and willing – to down-size your lifestyle for a very long time to come. For many of you, this might mean postponing all your political plans by a decade – maybe more. Does that mean it is the end of the world? Hardly. As I mentioned previously, what we are fighting for is very likely the hardest thing you will ever do in your life…Which means you need to prepare – and prepare really hard – and well. This is what you must do over the next 5-10-15 years whatever the case may be – before you are ready to take the plunge.
There is a lot more to say- and to discuss…The hard bits – and what comes next forms the core of this workshop that I did last year (and will be repeating later this year):Â Leadership Workshop for Political Activists.
If you are still determined to walk down this path, Join us! ..and make sure that your spouse reads this..make sure your parents understand this and support you…and if you have kids who are in their teens, make sure they know that their Dad/Mum has not “lost it”..but are trying to do something meaningful (and unpopular) against very harsh odds. Comments & thoughts welcome – as well as first-hand experience(s).
P.S. * In case you are wondering how large is “large” (see stark truth #3 above), I cannot obviously tell you how much will be “sufficient” for you. That is for you an your family to decide..what may be “sufficient” for you may not be sufficient for me – and vice-versa. I am reminded of something else I say in my discussions with youngsters: You will need to learn the difference between “need” and “desire”. There is unfortunately no other way…unless you happen to be a Gandhi.
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This is excellent. I would recommend to add Sanjeev’s proposition and it will close the loop.
Inida, you will get what you pay for. We guarantee that FTI will be accountable for what you paid.
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As usual very thought provoking article, but I don’t think so many parents and spouses will be ready for this.
Also what a coincidence that just today I discussed about my political activism and future plan with family and there was a big NO from parents. My brother was supportive though.
My parents, particularly my father was very much against it. He was worried and in tension like I am going to border to fight against terrorist.
He was always like this. He never took a risk in his life and he does not want me to take risk too.
I discussed it before too, but every time they have same excuse that people will call us fringe and crazy. They don’t me to spoil my life and only fool people go to politics and etc.
Nilesh
That was very well said, “He was worried and in tension like I am going to border to fight against terrorist”.
It sums it all: the middle-class perception of politics.
But I remember that Shantanu rightly pointed out somewhere (I can’t readily recall where) that similar perceptions were held about those who became Bollywood actors till the 1960s, but then the middle class changed, and decided to let their boys and girls go into acting.
Why did these perceptions change? I can’t say, but it might have happened as the society started recognising the contributions of actors. Today, it is quite alright to be an actor.
Tomorrow it WILL be quite alright to become a politician (public representative). But it won’t happen overnight. We have to make it happen.
Note that on FTI no one is being asked to “sacrifice”, but everyone is being asked to prepare.
I compare this to climbing Mt. Everest. The first step is NOT to climb the mountain (which only takes a few days), but to prepare. Preparation can take well over three years – of physical, mental, and logistical preparation. When you are finally ready, you come together at the base camp, and THEN climb.
FTI is a body to prepare for the base camp. The organisation that sets up the base camp and actually climbs will be different: a political party.
So FTI demands only in-principle commitment to contest elections. The actual act of contesting elections – TO WIN – will only be undertaken when all preparation is ready AND the country WANTS FTI members to contest.
You have already taken the “plunge” (into shallow water!) and joined FTI, but this discussion might help those who are undecided, to discuss with their families, and take this “plunge” as well.
Tell them that FTI members won’t contest elections till the country wants them. Ask them also: do they want good leaders or corrupt ones? Tell them they can’t have the cake and eat it too. Something has to give. Someone HAS to take the plunge.
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Santanu:
You have summed up the entire thought process in a very precise and analytic way. It is no less than a battle if we want to actually REFORM the political system in India. Financial stability and family support are the two key elements before taking a plunge.
FTI is bunch of lampposts with fuse lamps and without electricity. A bunch of liars, thieves and scoundrels who are busy in facetious homage to country and baking their breads.
AAryan, Nilesh, Sanjeev, Munish: Thanks…will respond later today (hopefully)
JC: Other than conveying your frustration, is there anything else you wish to say? by way of substantive comment?
Also, please note the thin line between sweeping allegations and abuse…(I am sure you are aware of the comments policy but just in case: https://satyameva-jayate.org/legal-disclaimer/)
Shantanu, the more I read you, the more my admiration for you grows(I have met you only once at IIT Delhi).Pity I can only pray for your success soonest possible so that I can see it in my life-time(I am more than 66 years old and not as financially secure as I would like to be to help you in whatever way I can).
The murder of IPS Officer Narendra Kumar reported in the TOI should give bloggers here some for thought. Is anyone interested in opening up a thread on this tragic killing?
Kishan-ji: Thank you for your kind words & encouragement…All we need are your blessings..money will find its own way.
Khandu: I’m trying to get more details on this..Thanks
Hi Shantanu,
I would love to see all positive and good forces coming together and forge an alliance. Few names which come to my mind are “Capt. Gopinath” , “Meera Sanyal”, “Arun Bhatia”, “Jay Prakash Narayan” of Loksatta.
I am sure you must be knowing few more names, and agree (hopefully) that all these people have similar “Good” intentions like you. Please communicate with these ppl and try to form a single and large alliance!!!
Indeed Sutikshan..
Search around for the “Hope Summit” on the blog..still trying/
Two relevant quotes, in this context from The Telegraph news report of 25th Nov ’12, “High ideals, low reach”:
Dr JP Narayan. “The risks are too high, the pain is too great, the sacrifice is unbearable and success is uncertain.â€
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It’s still going to be a long haul. “If you are not physically, financially, emotionally and morally strong, you have no business to be in politics,†says Shiv Khera.
Methodical and Analytical- Well done..A fair and honest pursuit for the long haul.
Our best wishes and support for this effort.
Here is a suggestion based on meagre short sight.
However, there is now so much deep-rooted anguish against the UPA and its conduct/brazenness that your last line of the article –
” You will need to learn the difference between “need†and “desireâ€. There is unfortunately no other way…unless you happen to be a Gandhi.”
is extremely well intention-ed yet,
please edit Gandhi to Mohandas Karamchand Gandhi..
using the term Gandhi as you have, smacks of the present UPA wigs.
We desperately hope you are not part of a lateral methodology to woo voters by the UPA-III, if that ever see’s light of day.